Expectations Vs. Reality

The other night, I randomly decided that it would hold upwards a adept persuasion to spotter a horror movie. For roughly reason, I persuasion that everything would plough out okay fifty-fifty though I hadn’t watched a horror film inwards years precisely because nada is ever okay afterwards I spotter a horror movie.
But on that night, for no detail reason, I felt similar I could handgrip it.

Immediately afterwards I turned off the TV, a feeling of apprehension welled upwards within of me. I could experience my psyche organizing what I had simply seen into a highlight reel that volition hold upwards freely embellished past times my ain imagination in addition to and then called upon to torture me for the residual of my life. It volition hold upwards dredged upwards over in addition to over, turning innocuous everyday occurrences into terrifying threats against my survival. Every dissonance that is non directly identifiable volition brand me scream upwards that there’s something inwards my family that is trying to kill me.
I know that this is what volition occur because it has happened before. In hindsight, at that spot was absolutely no argue to believe that it would non happen. But for roughly unknown reason, I ignored a lifetime’s worth of cautionary bear witness in addition to pranced merrily onward into the unavoidable consequences.
Blind optimism in addition to impulsivity frequently effort me to ignore logic in addition to instead brand decisions based on a hopeful projection of what’s going to occur next. It’s similar I forget everything I’ve ever learned almost the things that mostly don’t halt good when I practise them. And in addition to then I’m somehow surprised when things don’t occur the means I expected.
Take dancing, for example. Despite hours spent watching instructional YouTube videos, I however lack the might to movement my torso inwards a means that does non resemble a structurally unsound robot.
But in addition to then I become somewhere where people are dancing. I bring together inwards and, at first, I simply essay to snuff it on it simple.

But afterwards a picayune while, I acquire tired of repeating the same trip the low-cal fantastic toe moves. I start wanting to essay something new. This is when that picayune flake of blind optimism creeps inwards in addition to makes me believe, deep downwards inwards the real heart of my being, that non alone am I capable of shaking it similar Beyoncé, but that is precisely what I should hold upwards doing.


But something almost the movement I’ve simply attempted feels “off.”
This is commonly the dot at which I am abruptly snapped out of my fantasy where I am graceful in addition to sensual, into reality where my torso is contorted into a vaguely gargoyle-like shape.
I am directly filled amongst shame in addition to regret.
I commence to wonder why I would ever assume that I was capable of making my torso practise what I had pictured it doing. My coordination is questionable fifty-fifty spell performing unproblematic tasks similar walking or putting nutrient inwards my mouth. In college, I took a trip the low-cal fantastic toe class in addition to at the halt of the year, the alone affair my instructor wrote on my evaluation was “Allie tries hard.” Nothing I convey ever done would signal that I convey the potential to trip the low-cal fantastic toe similar Beyoncé. But I didn’t consider that.
Another affair that almost ever ends inwards directly contrast to how I had imagined is singing spell other people are present.
One fourth dimension I went on a route trip amongst my college roommate, Julie. I genuinely liked Julie in addition to I desperately wanted her to similar me back, but she was quite judgmental in addition to at that spot is a lot almost me to judge, so our fourth dimension together was commonly simply a serial of tense moments inwards which I tried my hardest to escape judgment long plenty to win Julie’s approval.
We had simply left town, the Sun was setting, the windows were down, the radio was playing in addition to I was of a abrupt overcome amongst the want to hold upwards a purpose of a montage-worthy car-singing duet. In my head, it was the perfect chance to bond amongst Julie.
I decided it would hold upwards a adept persuasion to simply start singing enthusiastically inwards companionship to acquire the ball rolling on fulfilling this pointless fantasy of mine.
It shortly became clear that Julie did non wishing to participate inwards this potentially idyllic moment. My enthusiasm imploded, leaving behind a dark hole of awkwardness in addition to insecurity.
But I knew that if I stopped singing in addition to simply sat inwards silence, it would alarm Julie to the fact that I was feeling awkward in addition to insecure. I had to pretend that I was unaware of the awkwardness I’d caused. I had to snuff it on singing.
I mumbled the residual of the vocal quietly, turning my caput toward the window to give the illusion that the abrupt reduction inwards book was due to the audio waves beingness impeded past times my caput in addition to not because I was embarrassed.
This discrepancy betwixt the means I imagine things unfolding in addition to how they genuinely occur is most dramatic when I overestimate my might to perform a pointless feat of athleticism. I’ll walk past times a low-hanging branch in addition to hold upwards struck amongst an irresistible want to run into if I tin displace boundary upwards in addition to impact it amongst my face. I’ll run into something heavy lying on the solid soil in addition to of a abrupt demand to know if I tin displace selection it up. There are absolutely no tangible benefits to doing these things, but the consequences are frequently significant.
As I’m lying there, crumpled in addition to broken from my most recent endeavour at meaningless success, I experience consummate bewilderment at the motivation behind what I simply did. There was no point. I’m certain that the determination was based on roughly combat of reasoning, but inwards retrospect it seems that chaos in addition to unbridled impulsivity simply collided randomly to create a totally unexplainable activity amongst no practise goodness in addition to all consequences.